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ABC News wants to interview wo…

posted by admin 10:41 AM
Tuesday, January 25, 2011

ABC News wants to interview women who’ve experienced divorce. Would you like to share your story? http://abcn.ws/fK3p1L

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How to Determine Alimony (also known as Maintenance in some states)

posted by admin 10:02 AM
Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Professional business women who are the primary bread-winners in the home often wonder if they will need to pay alimony to their husband and if so, how much they will be required to pay.

That is a tough question because the laws vary greatly from state to state.  In some states, there are very explicit guidelines that judges must use to determine the amount and duration of alimony.  In others, they simply list “factors” that a judge should take into consideration when determining alimony.  Also, be aware that some states will consider the fault of the party when determining alimony. For example, if the couple is divorcing because one of them has committed adultery, the court may consider that when determining whether alimony should be paid.  That is one very good reason that you need to speak to a good divorce attorney if you plan to have sexual relations with someone other than your spouse before your divorce is finalized (this can possibly affect both alimony and child custody).

Here are some of the factors a judge might use to decide whether your spouse is eligible for alimony:

1.       The standard of living established during the marriage (One of the primary purposes of alimony is to help the receiving spouse maintain a lifestyle after their divorce that is relatively comparable to their lifestyle before their divorce.)

2.       Property awarded to each spouse (Alimony is usually determined after the property division has been decided.)

3.       The duration of the marriage

4.       The income and property of each spouse

5.       The ability of the person to become self-supporting

6.       Present and future earning potential of both spouses

7.       Whether there are children living in the home

8.       If there was lost or reduced earning capacity of the person who is asking for alimony/maintenance that resulted from delaying his or her career during the marriage

9.       Tax consequences

10.   Contributions and services of the spouse who is asking for alimony or maintenance

11.   Whether either spouse has wasted marital assets

12.   Actions taken by a spouse in contemplation of the divorce

13.   Any other factor the Court determines is relevant

There is also something called Rehabilitative Alimony, which is often awarded in short-term marriages.

This type of alimony is usually awarded for only a few years and its purpose is to allow the receiving spouse to go back to school or to get job training so that they will quickly be able to support themselves financially.

It is really not possible to know whether you will be required to pay alimony until you consult with an experienced family law attorney and a qualified divorce financial analyst.  If you are contemplating divorce, please call us at 917-602-6977 for a free, 20-minute, no-obligation consultation with one of our Divorce Financial Strategists™.

All content on this site/blog is for informational purposes only, and does not constitute legal advice. If you require legal advice, retain a lawyer licensed in your jurisdiction. The opinions expressed are solely those of the author, who is not an attorney.

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I am now an official contribut…

posted by admin 11:11 AM
Tuesday, January 18, 2011

I am now an official contributor for the Divorce section of the HuffingtonPost!!

Here’s the link to my first articl…http://lnkd.in/NdTX4m

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January is the busiest month for divorce professionals.  I have not seen official statistics proving this, but I can tell you that we, along with our divorce professional colleagues, all notice increased activity in January.

Many say this is due to families trying to “stick it out” through the holidays for the sake of their children, and others say that people make this decision as one of their New Year’s resolutions.  No matter what the reason, if you find yourself at the beginning of the divorce process you should organize as much as possible to make the process go more smoothly.

Below you will find a partial list showing you what financial information you should begin gathering:

1. Income Tax Returns. Completed personal, corporate, partnership, joint venture, or other income tax returns (federal, state and local), including W-2, 1099, and K-1 forms, in your possession or control for the last 5 years, including all amended tax returns. Do you expect any tax refunds?

1A. Business Financial Statements.

- Net worth statement – balance sheet or list of assets and liabilities

- Income statement – cash flow or income and expense statement

2. Income Information. Current income information, including payroll stubs and all other evidence of income (investment property, rental/lease agreements, dividends, interest, royalties, lottery winnings, etc.) since the filing of your last tax return.

3. Personal Property Tax Returns filed in this state or anywhere else from the start of the marriage.

4. Banking Information. All monthly bank statements, passbooks, check registers, deposit slips, canceled checks, and bank charge notices on personal and business accounts, certificates of deposit, and money market and retirement accounts from banks, savings and loan institutions, credit unions, or other institutions in which you or your spouse has an interest.

5. Financial Statements submitted to banks, lending institutions, or any other persons or entities, which were prepared by you or your spouse at any time during the last five (5) years.

(To download the full list of 29 items, please go to our Bedrock Divorce Facebook Fan Page here.)

We would greatly appreciate it if you could “Like” our fan page while you are there.

If you are a woman contemplating divorce and you don’t have easy access to all of this information, do not worry!  Oftentimes we can help you find easy ways to obtain the information you need.  Just begin gathering as many items as you can, and then make an appointment with a Divorce Financial Strategist™ or divorce financial analyst. They will help you (and your divorce attorney) make sense of your current financial situation along with the future financial and tax implications of your various divorce settlement options. The sooner you start gathering this information, the less likely you will still be dealing with your divorce next January!

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If you are a busy career woman who is in the midst of an emotionally-charged divorce you might be dealing with several issues that you had never expected to face.   This is especially difficult for those of you who once had a clear and firm plan for your financial future.  You took the time to work with your spouse to ensure that the both of you and your children would be financially secure.

Now everything’s changed.

No matter whether the divorce was your idea or something thrust upon you, you now are wondering what tomorrow will look like – much less the rest of your financial life.  You might be tempted to accept the first settlement proposal suggested by your divorce attorney or by your spouse’s attorney just to get things over with.  As tempting as this may be, you should take your time with making these critical decisions because, for the most part, they cannot be undone.

Getting through the financial issues is often the toughest part of a divorce.  But it doesn’t have to be this way.  Meeting with a Divorce Financial Strategist™ (a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst [CDFA™] with advanced training in divorce financial planning strategies and asset protection) can ensure your financial protection now and in the future by helping you fully understand the financial and tax implications of your proposed divorce settlement.

Here are some of the ways a Divorce Financial Strategist™ or Certified Divorce Financial Analyst can help you:

  • Planning – A divorce financial analyst can help by developing a short-term and long-term financial plan so that you can make sure that the decisions you make today won’t negatively impact your financial future.
  • Researching – A divorce financial analyst traces and illustrates assets, debts, income and expenses as well as assesses tax consequences and prepares reports showing alternative settlement options.
  • Strategizing – By developing and analyzing multiple financial scenarios, a divorce financial analyst can help you understand the immediate and long-term implications of each proposal.
  • Reviewing – A divorce financial analyst can review settlement proposals, prepare schedules to compare alternative outcomes, and provide an objective second opinion to help you make more informed decision.

If you would like to see how one of our Divorce Financial Strategists™ can help you clarify the financial details of your divorce and get you a better settlement, please call us at (917) 602-6977 or email us at info@bedrockdivorce.com to schedule a free, no-obligation, half-hour consultation.

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I just scheduled a Meetup for …

posted by admin 7:06 PM
Monday, January 10, 2011

I just scheduled a Meetup for Smart Financial Strategies For Pre-Divorced Women. You should come! http://meetu.ps/b82f

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Why Women Business Owners Should Consider Divorce-Proofing

posted by admin 9:31 AM
Thursday, January 6, 2011

Picture this scenario…

Mary and John have been married for many years.  Mary stayed home and raised three children and helped John build his career.  Mary went back to school without any financial help from John and then became a lawyer and built a successful law practice.  John fell hard for his secretary and filed for divorce.  John sued for half of the value of her law practice – and got it.

Oddly enough, the system of equitable distribution came about largely to protect women.  Several years ago many states adopted this model to protect the dependent homemaker who raised children and helped her husband build his career only to find herself with little or nothing when the marriage ended.  The idea was to make sure that the woman had an equitable share of the family’s assets even though her contribution was not financial.

The very rules meant to protect women are now working against them. This is why all women business owners should consider divorce-proofing their business or professional practice, even if they don’t anticipate a divorce.

Here at Bedrock Divorce Advisors, we have developed an easy two-step process. First, one of our Divorce Financial Strategists™ (a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst [CDFA™] with advanced training in asset protection and divorce financial planning strategies) will analyze potential risks you and your business might face in the event of a future divorce. Second, the Divorce Financial Strategist™ will recommend immediate steps you should take to guard against those risks.  This two-step process will put you in the strongest possible financial position to deal with and recover from any possible future divorce.

 While some may wonder why they need divorce-proofing if they are still single or happily married, we know from experience that divorce-proofing should be part of every woman business owner’s normal financial planning and risk management, regardless of her current marital status.

To find out how divorce-proofing can help you and your company, please call (917) 602-6977 or email us at info@bedrockdivorce.com to schedule a free, no-obligation 20 minute phone consultation.

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